Monday, 21 April 2014

LOVE IS BLIND


LOVE IS BLIND




Some boys who have loved a girl with good wealth say “love is blind”. And a third person, who looks all over the beach, gets shocked by seeing lovers. They were sitting on one others lap and making lip lock. And he is waiting to see the face of both lovers, at last he got the vision.  Both the lovers are not matched to each other’s and third person say “love is blind”.

    If you hate something you ready  to give curse statement. “Love is blind” is not curse statement, but it made as curse statement.  If you know the real meaning of “love is blind” you will not use it as curse statement. 

          All the people try to compensate the theoretical value into practical value. We can’t compensate this both value. Life also like this; reading a book like “how to lead a life “will not enough to lead a life. Am general making a concept in this blog was love is blind, not according to books but in a practical knowledge.  

         From my childhood days onwards I am a good listener.  Due to misunderstanding my parents had many fights with each other’s. I really got upset by them, because they don’t understand each other’s, till now. My age was 21 they were fighting for no reason.  After some stage, I had a habit of listening to their words, while they fight. By their fighting words, I am making a judgement whose side the mistake was, finally I can’t conclude. I asked all over my friends did their parents had fight in their life time. I thought most of the people say No, theoretical value fails in practical value is proved my friend also had seen plenty of fights. Even they had gone to edge of divorce, my parents never gone to this level. They have gone to a higher level.

         I don’t get much angry while they fight. But angry will be higher and higher when next day morning entering into their bedroom, they were hugging each other and sleeping. Don’t say this is as love is blind. If their love is blind why can’t they be blind when their life partner makes a mistake? Only mistake they say is he/she doesn’t obey to their words.

The Problem is here friend this is according to my practical knowledge.

         India is not a religious country; here all kinds of religious people are living. India is also called as Hindustan it means the land of Hindus. India is attacked by mughal empire and for some years they ruled India. After that, the British attacked India and they also ruled us for some year. After our independence India becomes a democratic country    “of the people , by the people , for the people”. Indian people have the same faith in God all over the country. Every state has their language and their prayer for God. Other people don’t understand other language and prayer. All gods have their relation to other gods. Indian pledge also says all Indians are my brother and sisters. This thing and statement are from older and well experienced people.  Modern uneducated young people, ask a question if all Indians are my sister, who I going to marry, it’s called as wrong understanding. “All Indians are my brother and sister”  it means you need to help each other’s while their time of sorrow, should not read the news as it in newspaper,  need to give voice for them. Some months before we had rape news all over India it made shocks to the people of the world. The news says  Capital city of India was not safe for women. Medical college girl being raped by some guys in a bus. Plenty of college students make it a big issue and fought for the justice for the girl.  By, the indirect work of student and people. And by, direct work of police and court.  The culprits were given their deserved punishments. Proud to be Indian but before the culprits got their punishment there are plenty of rape cases booked. If those five guys seen that girl as sister, there is no death. We had got a good doctor. Plenty of lives will be saved. All need to understand the meaning of a sentence through education. If a modern uneducated person need to change the pledge, they can change it by “all countries, people are my brother and sister” this  is called modernization not by replacing the real meaning of it. 

 While we pray to god in our language, it can’t be understood by others, who only know their language. So, they may make fun of us. Hindus , Muslims, Christians , Jainism, Sikhism . . . They all have their own language to pray,   you don’t understand their language and making fun of them, it’s really hurts all. If you need to understand their faith, you need to learn their language, not by converting your religion. Just think friend’s you have faith in God and you need to show your love god. What are the possibilities to show your love . . 

1.  You can walk on the fire
2.  You can insert vel(sword) on your tongue
3.  You can take fasting for God
4.  You can serve to god by serving the poor
5.  You can walk to the temple from your home


These are my language prayer and possibilities to show the love. Every language has own possibilities.  

If some day god may come to my home and say “your love is true, I mesmerized by your serving , and you will have my blessing all time”. By the words of god, I will be happy, I got what I deserved from god. If god doesn’t visit me also, its ok. But god visits me and says “your prayer is not understandable, you serving is not good, you will deserve nothing”.  If he says like that,  my life will be in horror. . Till this many years, I  pray to god in my language. God sentence what it means is, “my life till this years is useless and my prayer is useless”. If I am doing the useless things means, “why god didn’t correct me at first? ”. 


    Now, we compare this with our parents fight. Dad is god and mom is who pray to god. . Mom does the thing like cooking, cleaning,  serving and sharing  things with dad, as the way of showing her love. . If dad says “I not like your cooking, cleaning and serving tendency” and at last he say “your love is not true”. 

 Now, feel the pain of the mother, who knows only the language of cooking , cleaning , guiding their children and serving their needs.  She doesn’t know any other way to show their love, because our moms are uneducated. They can’t find any source to work in an IT company. If , she was educated and holding a job in IT OR MNC COMPANY, she will resign the job for the serving of their family. MOM KNOWS MONEY CAN'T  PROVIDE HAPPINESS. These are another way of love . . Every god needs to understand it. . Sorry every dad needs to understand it. . Sorry every religious person needs to understand it. . Sorry every person needs to understand it.. Sorry, all need to understand it “love is blind”.
   


   

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