Your wife hates you

Your wife hates you

“Do you know, your wife hates you?  Don’t get angry, ya she hates you Because of ...........”

              India has the population of 1.21 billion as per 2011. In  Tamil nadu has the populations of 72.14 million in the same year of survive. According to official statics given by family court source, about 6000 divorce cases were pending apart from 700 cases for alimony.

   “Why I am saying this, everything will cope up “

                                                           It’s a fine day, new school for me.  I am sitting separate in the class room without knowledge what other’s talking about. I not a moody character but the school atmosphere makes me like that. It’s a Christianity school , I am studying iv standard,  now this my school for 5 years , I will study here. After the five year, I need to change my school, hence school restrict the co-education after the class eighth. I need to follow the rule because they be superior  for 5 years.

            I surrounded by 85% classmates as lower-middle class people only by means of money. They have more mark than me. I belong to middle class family one step up only through money and knowledge. I am afraid to talk to near person or friend in the class because they used bad word often in their conversation. So I avoid the conversation and restrict the unwanted speech.

Why they use bad word in this age of 9. What the problem to use the bad word. ” is they have so many problems”, “no not”. They use bad word because they can’t find good words. This is the only reason. I am sure in it.

    In some case if they can’t find any word or to restrict your work they will say “your wife will hates you don’t do that….”

               “If they can’t find good things in a person, because they don’t know what good is”

Some incident for your view

                           its real incidents in my life

After eight standards   one of my classmates called through phone and asked me “which school you going to join?”

 Me: “I going to join in school named ………”, “and you?” I asked him.

 Friend    : He laughed and continued “hey what f….. Joining in that school join some other school”

  Me        :  Why? What the reason?

 Friend     :  Because there is no perfect coaching in that school and you will not write the public                          examination in your school too

Me           : So what’s the problem in it I can go for coaching class in private?

Friend       : But the examination center is not in your school known, because on the time of public examination our school will give book to write the exam, to improve pass percentage.

Me           : What you saying, subject book will provide at the time of examination

Friend      : Ya it true, my neighbor boy studying in that school, this is a secret information don’t say it to anyone 

Me           : sorry I can’t join in your school because I paid the school fees

Friend      : so what, money is doesn’t a matter. Do what you want, your school has more student from village    they will talk more bad word and there character also worst. And you too need to be with them for 2 year.  Your character also will spoil, on interacting with them. Especially your wife will hate you.

Me: thanks for the free advice man, bye...

I need to underline the last phrase. whatever   he may talk but how he knows about my wife. It’s a stupid conversation with him. Another thing is there no book is provided in the public exam for the student. It is a trick by management to get the more strength of weak students and put them in special coaching and getting more money. They will keep weak students for one year and they will throw them out of the school. (Condition apply)         

                 

INCIDENCE IN MY COLLEGE

              My parents tried lot to send me to the hostel but they fail. At last in college I came forward to stay in hostel for a period in my second year. I got good roommates all studying people…. So no problem for assignment, I can get from them. I always stay away from them, so no one will say me as bright student and they don’t need my help too. I am lazy guy.

        Hostel has different people in different form.

 Someone with book

Someone with cards

Someone with chess board

Someone with snacks

Someone with washing cloths

Someone with half sleep

Someone with mp3 player

But, maximum everyone with mobile phones…… (Phones means someone with 2 more phone)

One guy always with the mobile he never keeps the phone down neither battery is down. I felt strange with this guy, how he can speak to girl. Ya opponent  is a girl, while crossing him I noted the voice from phone, its a female one. He never keeps the phone down… talk talk… I thought that girl be his lover but why he need to use different sim for every one hour daily, to talk to a girl. I confused. The boy name is varun kumaran.

                                              All my roommates gone for a vacation leave. I be staying in hostel hence I missed the college bus to my home. I need to spend one night in hostel……… my roommates locked the room and key is with them. I need to be stay in others room who all missed their bus and who never miss the Wednesday night food (parota).

                                          I am staying tonight next room of mine. I entered the room, one boy siting at the last with the phone, He is it named  varun kumaran. He introduced himself with his name…. and then he moved to chat in the phone. After that he put the charge for the phone and He went to sleep, I too. I woke up in the middle at night, I checked my watch time 11.30pm. More silence, message tone from the varun mobile broke the silence. Varun rushed from the bed to talk the phone before he took it, the light from the phone turned off. Due to darkness in the room he mistakenly slipped the phone down. Mobile was broken into pieces. He tried to assemble it, but he can’t. I am seeing the action carried out by varun. He turn to me his eyes looked my hand.

  “Varun why you this much offence for looking a message” asked him.

 “No it’s my life da”.  “I will speak to lot of girls this girl who messaged me now is better than everyone, she will look nice”

“Its okay varun why you talk with lot of girls, you can love one girl know”

“No friend, all girls are not good, we need filter it” he didn’t take the eye from my right hand.

“Why you say like this, it’s really unfair to me”

“It’s not unfair, if you give your phone I will show the character of girls” he showed his hand to get my phone.

“I gave my phone to him, which is in my right hand”

He made the conversation with one girl named  reshma through my phone he said “I going to talk with that one girl and I will show you practically to filter the girls

Varun :  hi

Reshma:  who is this?

Varun : I am your Facebook friend varun

Reshma: oh, you varun... hi

Varun: hmm, what doing

Rehma: I am lying in the bed and you

Varun: me too, bye reshma need to go

Varun turned to me and show the message, said “he is the bad girl see the conversation how she can say lying in bed to a unknown boy”

“Hey varun you messaged her at late night at this time she will be in bed only, how you say she is bad girl of bad character”.

 “It’s a trick of girl da”

“How you sure about it varun “

“Other boys told me like that only “. “If you don’t speak with girls and filter them, you can’t move your married life good”, your wife will hate you

Every boy has the separate rule for girls, if she fails to do. She is a bad girl and with bad character………………………………………………

Everyone   near  you gives  different  rules for judging a girl, whatever point you remember form them , you make a separate rule in that hence there no rule is approved by a head.  No head is there to judge a women mind.

        Over expectation and rule will allow your mind to have bad thought upon a girl and that leads to often judge a girl. This karma follow you till you get a grandchild girl and at dead second in the bed whiling seeing the nurse.

                    “Without controlling your mind, you can’t judge other mind. Especially girls mind”.  Above sentence are from fighters like Bruce lee, Jackie Chan, jet lee ….

  Avoid the rules and judgment; fill your life with love. Replace your joy with sacrifice. You be the master of your life….  

   If you fail to do it “your wife hates you”.

(All incident gather from people are outside the college not in mine, it’s a fiction)