Your wife
hates you
“Do you know, your wife hates you? Don’t get angry, ya she hates you Because
of ...........”
India has the population of 1.21
billion as per 2011. In Tamil nadu has the populations of 72.14 million in
the same year of survive. According to official statics given by family court
source, about 6000 divorce cases were pending apart from 700 cases for alimony.
“Why I am saying this, everything will cope
up “
It’s a fine day, new school for me. I am sitting separate in the class room without
knowledge what other’s talking about. I not a moody character but the school
atmosphere makes me like that. It’s a Christianity school , I am studying iv
standard, now this my school for 5 years
, I will study here. After the five year, I need to change my school, hence
school restrict the co-education after the class eighth. I need to follow the
rule because they be superior for 5
years.
I surrounded by 85% classmates as lower-middle class people only by
means of money. They have more mark than me. I belong to middle class family
one step up only through money and knowledge. I am afraid to talk to near
person or friend in the class because they used bad word often in their
conversation. So I avoid the conversation and restrict the unwanted speech.
Why they use bad word in this age of 9. What the
problem to use the bad word. ” is they have so many problems”, “no not”. They
use bad word because they can’t find good words. This is the only reason. I am
sure in it.
In
some case if they can’t find any word or to restrict your work they will say “your
wife will hates you don’t do that….”
“If they can’t
find good things in a person, because they don’t know what good is”
Some incident for your view
its real incidents in my life
After
eight standards one of my classmates
called through phone and asked me “which school you going to join?”
Me: “I going to join in school named ………”,
“and you?” I asked him.
Friend
: He laughed and continued “hey what f….. Joining in that school join
some other school”
Me
: Why? What the reason?
Friend
: Because there is no perfect
coaching in that school and you will not write the public examination in your
school too
Me : So what’s the problem in it I can
go for coaching class in private?
Friend : But the examination center is not in
your school known, because on the time of public examination our school will
give book to write the exam, to improve pass percentage.
Me : What you saying, subject book will
provide at the time of examination
Friend : Ya it true, my neighbor boy studying in
that school, this is a secret information don’t say it to anyone
Me : sorry I can’t join in your school
because I paid the school fees
Friend : so what, money is doesn’t a matter. Do what
you want, your school has more student from village they will talk more bad word and there
character also worst. And you too need to be with them for 2 year. Your character also will spoil, on interacting
with them. Especially your wife will hate you.
Me:
thanks for the free advice man, bye...
I
need to underline the last phrase. whatever
he may talk but how he knows
about my wife. It’s a stupid conversation with him. Another thing is there no
book is provided in the public exam for the student. It is a trick by
management to get the more strength of weak students and put them in special
coaching and getting more money. They will keep weak students for one year and
they will throw them out of the school. (Condition apply)
INCIDENCE IN MY COLLEGE
My parents tried
lot to send me to the hostel but they fail. At last in college I came forward
to stay in hostel for a period in my second year. I got good roommates all
studying people…. So no problem for assignment, I can get from them. I always
stay away from them, so no one will say me as bright student and they don’t
need my help too. I am lazy guy.
Hostel has different people in different
form.
Someone with book
Someone
with cards
Someone
with chess board
Someone
with snacks
Someone
with washing cloths
Someone
with half sleep
Someone
with mp3 player
But,
maximum everyone with mobile phones…… (Phones means someone with 2 more phone)
One
guy always with the mobile he never keeps the phone down neither battery is down.
I felt strange with this guy, how he can speak to girl. Ya opponent is a girl, while
crossing him I noted the voice from phone, its a female one. He never keeps the
phone down… talk talk… I thought that girl be his lover but why he need to use different
sim for every one hour daily, to talk to a girl. I confused. The boy name is varun
kumaran.
All
my roommates gone for a vacation leave. I be staying in hostel hence I missed
the college bus to my home. I need to spend one night in hostel……… my roommates
locked the room and key is with them. I need to be stay in others room who all
missed their bus and who never miss the Wednesday night food (parota).
I am staying
tonight next room of mine. I entered the room, one boy siting at the last with
the phone, He is it named varun kumaran.
He introduced himself with his name…. and then he moved to chat in the phone. After
that he put the charge for the phone and He went to sleep, I too. I woke up in
the middle at night, I checked my watch time 11.30pm. More silence, message
tone from the varun mobile broke the silence. Varun rushed from the bed to talk
the phone before he took it, the light from the phone turned off. Due to darkness
in the room he mistakenly slipped the phone down. Mobile was broken into pieces.
He tried to assemble it, but he can’t. I am seeing the action carried out by varun.
He turn to me his eyes looked my hand.
“Varun why you this much offence for looking
a message” asked him.
“No it’s my life da”. “I will speak to lot of girls this girl who messaged
me now is better than everyone, she will look nice”
“Its
okay varun why you talk with lot of girls, you can love one girl know”
“No
friend, all girls are not good, we need filter it” he didn’t take the eye from
my right hand.
“Why
you say like this, it’s really unfair to me”
“It’s
not unfair, if you give your phone I will show the character of girls” he
showed his hand to get my phone.
“I
gave my phone to him, which is in my right hand”
He
made the conversation with one girl named
reshma through my phone he said “I going to talk with that one girl and I
will show you practically to filter the girls
Varun
: hi
Reshma:
who is this?
Varun
: I am your Facebook friend varun
Reshma:
oh, you varun... hi
Varun:
hmm, what doing
Rehma:
I am lying in the bed and you
Varun:
me too, bye reshma need to go
Varun
turned to me and show the message, said “he is the bad girl see the
conversation how she can say lying in bed to a unknown boy”
“Hey
varun you messaged her at late night at this time she will be in bed only, how
you say she is bad girl of bad character”.
“It’s a trick of girl da”
“How
you sure about it varun “
“Other
boys told me like that only “. “If you don’t speak with girls and filter them,
you can’t move your married life good”, your wife will hate you
Every
boy has the separate rule for girls, if she fails to do. She is a bad girl and
with bad character………………………………………………
Everyone
near you gives different rules for judging a girl, whatever point you
remember form them , you make a separate rule in that hence there no rule is
approved by a head. No head is there to
judge a women mind.
Over expectation and rule will allow
your mind to have bad thought upon a girl and that leads to often judge a girl.
This karma follow you till you get a grandchild girl and at dead second in the
bed whiling seeing the nurse.
“Without controlling your mind,
you can’t judge other mind. Especially girls mind”. Above sentence are from fighters like Bruce lee,
Jackie Chan, jet lee ….
Avoid the rules and judgment; fill your life
with love. Replace your joy with sacrifice. You be the master of your life….
If you fail to do it “your wife hates you”.
(All
incident gather from people are outside the college not in mine, it’s a fiction)
